Once in a Lifetime Trip

Choosing senior living is one of the most important decisions a family can make, and one many families feel unprepared for at first. It often comes with a mix of urgency, uncertainty, and emotion. Many families begin the process thinking they understand what to expect, only to realize along the way that there were things they hadn’t considered. Here are some of the most common things families say they wish they knew earlier. It’s Not Just About Care – “Families often seek care for specific needs; however, the real transformation happens when they realize the community they've been missing,” said Josh Anderson, who leads resident experience and services at Saint Therese. “Opportunities for connection, meaningful activities, and simply feeling part of a community all play a big role in quality of life.” Senior living is not just about support. It’s about creating an environment where people can continue to live fully, with meaningful experiences and relationships. Waiting Too Long Is Common – One of the most frequent reflections families share is that they wish they had started the process sooner. Often, the search begins during a crisis such as a fall or a hospitalization. This can limit options and add stress to an already emotional situation. Starting earlier allows for more thoughtful decisions, better fit, and a smoother transition. The Emotional Side Is Real – Even when it’s clearly the right decision, the emotional weight can be significant. Adult children often experience guilt, uncertainty, or second-guessing. Older adults may feel a sense of loss or hesitation about change. Understanding that these feelings are normal can help families move forward with more confidence and compassion. Every Community Feels Different – Not all senior living communities are the same. Beyond amenities and services, each has its own culture, energy, and approach. Families often say they didn’t realize how important it would be to find a place that “feels right.” Visiting, asking questions, and spending time in the environment can make a meaningful difference. What’s Included Can Vary – Pricing and services are not always structured the same way across communities. Families often wish they had asked more detailed questions about what is included, what may cost extra, and how needs may change over time. Clarity early on helps avoid surprises later. The Transition Is an Adjustment – Moving into senior living is a transition, not a single moment. The first few weeks can include a mix of excitement and adjustment. Building new routines, meeting people, and settling into a new environment takes time. With the right support, most residents begin to feel comfortable and engaged. Quality of Life Often Improves – One of the most meaningful things families share is that their loved one is often more engaged, social, and supported than before. What may begin as a difficult decision often leads to positive outcomes that families did not fully expect. Final Thoughts At Saint Therese , a senior living organization, we often walk alongside families navigating these same questions. We understand that every situation is unique, and having the right support and guidance can make all the difference in feeling confident about next steps.

I first heard about Lino Anunciacion a year or so ago. “The singing waiter at Oxbow Lake,” someone told me. That description stuck with me. But the more I’ve gotten to know Lino, the more I’ve realized something important: he’s not “just” a waiter. He’s not even “just” a server. He’s a caregiver in every sense of the word. Earlier this month, LeadingAge Minnesota recognized Lino, Lead Food Server at Saint Therese of Oxbow Lake , as a 2026 Caregiver of the Year for District G. The award honors individuals who go beyond expectations to greatly enhance the quality of life for older adults and their communities. If you’ve ever seen him in action, you understand why.